When someone has let you down or disappointed you there's a bid difference between should-ing and sharing.
If you’re a good rule-follower, you might be stuck in a should dynamic without even realizing it.
Think this might be a problem for you?
You might be “should-ing” on people if you:
- Often feel like people are defensive or dismissive when you’re trying to make a request or tell them what’s bothering you.
- Feel like the rules you follow are applicable to everyone and you just need to get them to see that.
You can have more success with collaborative relationships when you learn to share instead of should. Listen to this episode for a relatable example of how it’s done.
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